Monday, October 19, 2015

Introduction

We are in the process of adopting twin teen girls from Colombia, and will document our adventure here.

As background...I read an article about what happens to US kids in foster care when they turn 18 and go out on their own without the support of a family. As you can imagine it is not good. So in the spring of 2014 we started on the long road to adopt a teen from Minnesota. We finally completed all the paperwork by December of 2014, but surprisingly few kids were available at that time. So we decided to wait, as more kids are added to the list every week.

Then Kim read a newspaper article about orphaned kids from Colombia attending a "camp" in Minnesota. She called the contact listed in the article and learned about Camp of Dreams and Friends of FANA Minnesota. She also heard about the delightful twin girls, Mayra (shown as Alejandra in the newspaper article) and Rocio. We thought about it and in January made the decision to adopt the girls.

We had to start all over again with a different adoption agency (Evolve), a new home study, fresh background checks, doctor visits, home inspection, and papers, papers, papers... We were eventually approved again, and yet the paperwork kept coming! We had to be approved by US Customs and Immigration, the kids had to be approved by them too. Then we had to travel to Chicago to get visas to travel to Colombia for the adoption. Finally, last week we were told to travel to Bogota on the weekend of October 24-25, 2015!

We have Skyped with the girls twice, with one more scheduled this week. They know about as much English as I know Spanish... which means almost nothing! But with the help of a translator we have had wonderful conversations. The kids are so excited to have a family. Rocio was so happy she was in tears the fist time we talked.

So us "old people" are adopting a couple of teens that we have never met in-person. Some people think we are nuts, and maybe we are! Yet from what we have learned about the girls from their paperwork, talking with the Director of the coordinating orphanage, talking with Minnesotans who spent a week with the girls at Camp of Dreams last year, and the Skype sessions we have had - we are confident that this is the right match. We are very excited to meet them, get to know them, and to become their forever family.

We have done many fun things with our two kids (Tim and Mandy), and our seven foreign exchange students (Carmen, Conni, Daniela, Bekki, Marcel, Dominik, and Nimdak). We love them all! We look forward to creating more great memories for, and with, the twins!

I invite you to follow along as we head to Bogota on October 24th. I expect quite the adventure as we are immersed in Colombia, with little knowledge of Spanish! I have high expectations for the Google Translate app on my iPhone.

- Dan and Kim MacDonald.

3 comments:

  1. I don't think you're nuts - you are just absolutely amazing! I am looking forward to reading every single post of this blog that is yet to come and I wish you the best of luck and lots of fun in Columbia! The girls can be very proud to have you as their future parents. There could not be a couple that is kinder to and better suited for adopting teenage girls than you! I am sure you'll overcome the language barriers (if there are any) very quickly and if it helps: my English wasn't good either when I arrived in MN... ;-)

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  2. Dear Bekkichen, thank you for the kind words. Your English was very good, even at the start! You are a sweetheart and we love you very much! Our wonderful experiences with you and Beachen have contributed to the decision to adopt the twins. ❤️

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  3. Aww, that is nice to hear! Lots of hugs and kisses from Germany <3

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